Man I'm really sorry to hear that. It's always tough when we lose a furry member of the family. At least she was a survivor, and had 14 years with her family thanks to you. They all wait for us at the Rainbow Bridge. You will see her again.

I'd rather give someone a tool than a solution. Give them an answer and they'll always expect it. Teach them how to find the answers for themselves and they will spend a lifetime learning.
As for my mental state?
"Not User Friendly"